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How to Pay for Fertility Treatment Without Going Broke

Insurance mandates, employer benefits, grants, loans, tax strategies, and creative financing options. Every legitimate way to reduce your fertility treatment costs.

State Insurance Mandates

22 states plus DC now have laws requiring insurance companies to cover some form of fertility treatment. But “mandate” doesn’t mean “everything is free”—coverage varies enormously.

StateMandate TypeIVF Covered?Key Limits
ColoradoCoverYes3 egg retrievals, 3 transfers; up to $25K lifetime
ConnecticutCoverYesUp to 2 cycles; age limit removed 2023
IllinoisCoverYes4 egg retrievals; no age limit
MarylandCoverYes$100K lifetime max; includes IUI & IVF
MassachusettsCoverYesNo cycle limits; most comprehensive
New JerseyCoverYes4 egg retrievals; LGBTQ+ inclusive
New YorkCoverYes3 cycles; large employer plans
CaliforniaOfferNo (IUI only)Requires offer, not cover
TexasOfferLimitedIVF for married couples only, strict criteria
The Self-Insured Plan Problem

Here’s the catch most people don’t know: state mandates only apply to state-regulated insurance plans. Most large employers (Fortune 500, tech companies, etc.) self-insure, meaning they fund their own health plans and are regulated by federal ERISA law, not state law. Self-insured plans are exempt from state fertility mandates. If your employer self-insures (most with 500+ employees do), the state mandate may not apply to you. Check whether your plan is “fully insured” or “self-insured” by calling the number on your insurance card.

Employer Fertility Benefits

The fastest-growing category of fertility coverage. Companies increasingly offer fertility benefits through platforms like Progyny, Carrot Fertility, Maven, and WINFertility. These benefits operate independently from insurance and can cover IVF, egg freezing, IUI, and sometimes surrogacy and adoption.

Typical coverage: $10,000–$50,000+ in lifetime fertility benefits. Some companies measure in “smart cycles” (Progyny) rather than dollar amounts, which is more favorable because a smart cycle covers the full treatment without dollar caps eating into coverage.

How to Check Your Benefits

1. Search your benefits portal for “fertility,” “family building,” or “reproductive.” 2. Check for Progyny, Carrot, or Maven listed as benefit providers. 3. Ask HR directly—fertility benefits are often poorly publicized. 4. Call your insurance card number and ask specifically about “infertility treatment coverage” and “oocyte cryopreservation.”

Fertility Grants

Competitive but real. These organizations award grants for fertility treatment costs:

Baby Quest Foundation
Up to $16,000

Awards grants for IVF, egg/sperm donation, surrogacy, and embryo donation. Open to all family types. Competitive application; awards made quarterly.

The Cade Foundation Family Building Grant
Up to $10,000

For couples with financial need. Application includes financial disclosure. Annual deadline. Has awarded $1M+ since founding.

Pay It Forward Fertility Foundation
Up to $10,000

Open to couples with infertility diagnosis. Includes IVF, IUI, and adoption. Application opens annually.

Livestrong Fertility (Cancer Patients)
Discounted treatment

Partners with fertility clinics to offer discounted or free fertility preservation for cancer patients. Not a cash grant—direct clinic discounts.

Gift of Parenthood
Up to $16,000

Monthly grants of varying amounts. Simple application. Open to all family structures.

HSA & FSA Tax Strategies

Fertility treatment qualifies as a medical expense under IRS rules. This creates meaningful tax savings opportunities:

Fertility Loans & Payment Plans

OptionTypical TermsBest For
Clinic payment plans0% interest for 6–12 monthsShort-term financing if you can pay within a year
CapexMDFertility-specific loans, competitive ratesLarger amounts ($10K+) with reasonable terms
Prosper Healthcare LendingFixed rates, terms up to 84 monthsSpreading cost over longer period
LendingClub / SoFiPersonal loans, 7–15% APR typicalGood credit borrowers needing flexibility
0% APR credit cards0% for 15–21 months introBridging cost if you can pay off before promo ends
401(k) loanBorrow from yourself, repay with interest to yourselfLast resort; impacts retirement savings

IVF Refund Programs (Shared Risk)

Some clinics and Attain Fertility (ARC) offer “shared risk” programs: you pay a higher upfront fee (typically $20,000–$35,000) that covers multiple IVF cycles (usually 3–6). If you don’t have a baby, you get 70–100% of your money back.

The economics: these programs are priced so the clinic wins on average (they keep the premium for patients who succeed on cycle 1). But for patients facing uncertain outcomes, the risk reduction can be worth the premium. You’re essentially buying insurance on top of treatment.

Before Signing a Shared Risk Contract

Read the fine print carefully. Key questions: What counts as a “cycle”? What if you produce no embryos—does that count? What’s excluded (medications, PGT, FET are often extra)? What are the age/AMH cutoffs for eligibility? How is the refund calculated? Some programs define success as “clinical pregnancy” (heartbeat) rather than live birth.

10 More Ways to Reduce Costs

  1. Get 3+ clinic quotes. Same-city pricing varies by $5,000+ for the same treatment.
  2. Shop specialty pharmacies for meds. MDR, Freedom Fertility, Alto—prices vary $1,000+ for identical medications.
  3. Ask about compassionate care programs. EMD Serono (Gonal-F), Ferring (Menopur), and others offer discounts for patients without coverage.
  4. Consider treatment abroad. Colombia, Spain, Czech Republic offer IVF at 50–70% of US prices. See our IVF cost guide.
  5. Look into clinical trials. Fertility clinics sometimes offer free or discounted cycles as part of research studies.
  6. Ask about mini-IVF. Lower medication costs, $5K–$8K per cycle. See our mini-IVF guide.
  7. Time your FSA enrollment. Enroll for max contribution the year you plan treatment.
  8. Use donated/leftover medications. FertilityFriends, r/IVF, and clinic bulletin boards connect patients with unused meds.
  9. Negotiate with your clinic. Pay-in-full discounts (5–10%) are common but rarely advertised.
  10. Fundraise transparently. GoFundMe and similar platforms are increasingly used for fertility treatment. No shame in it.
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FAQ

Does insurance cover IVF?
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22 states plus DC have fertility mandates, but coverage varies. Strongest: MA (no cycle limits), IL (4 retrievals), CO ($25K lifetime), MD ($100K lifetime). Self-insured plans (most large employers) are exempt from state mandates. Check your specific plan.
Are there grants for IVF?
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Yes. Baby Quest Foundation (up to $16K), Cade Foundation (up to $10K), Pay It Forward Fertility (up to $10K), Gift of Parenthood (up to $16K). Most are competitive with annual application cycles. Military families, LGBTQ+ couples, and cancer survivors have additional options.
Can I use my HSA for fertility treatment?
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Yes. All fertility treatments (IVF, IUI, egg freezing, medications, testing) qualify as medical expenses under IRS rules. HSA funds can be used tax-free for any of these. Max your HSA contributions the year before planned treatment if possible.

Financial Disclaimer

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